The secret to good design

I walked into this Charlotte home and immediately wished I could bottle the feeling. It was the little bit of sunshine and cheer we’ve all been looking for this winter.

The charming Charlotte home — with character and designer finishes — will leave you dreaming and energized. Every wall, every corner, every detail — intentionally finished. While I toured this home in-person, it was hard to capture it all in an Instagram Reel. 

So I partnered with the realtor, Meredith Tomascak, and interior designer, Anne Pearson, to bring you beautiful images that I think you’ll love.

Anne has graciously provided paint colors and other sources which I share below. I’ve also asked her to share some advice for homeowners aspiring to create a home that feels finished and personalized. 

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Now, sit back and enjoy the tour.

The Paint | sherwin williams clary sage (railings and front door)

You have beautiful artwork. Where are some of your favorite places to source art?

Anne: I purchase a lot through artists I follow on Instagram: Caleb Mahoney, Renee Bouchon, Laura McCarty, Alexis Walters, Catherine B Jones. I also have been bidding on antique paintings on live auction like the one in the laundry room. I had that one reframed.

The Advice (from Anne) | I really focused on buying smaller pieces that I love and then put some money into the framing. It takes time to develop a collection. Decorating slowly is not a bad thing!! Take your time and get the bones of your house right first then work on adding all the layers.

Anne’s home has evolved over the last six years. She truly has lived into her advice to take your time and find the things you love.

For example, here is the entry way during the process of decorating.

Now!!

Your home feels so collected and layered. Where do you look and what do you look for when thinking about accessories?

Anne: I scour Etsy and consignment stores for accessories like old books and turnbridge boxes and my little collection of marble fruits. All of these together add so much warmth and character to a home.

The Wallpaper | quadrille arbre de matisse camel on tint

The Paint | sherwin williams clary sage (same as railings and front door)

The Paint | extra white by sherwin williams, tricorn black by sherwin williams

What advice would you give a homeowner just starting out decorating their home?

The Advice (from Anne): I will have to heed my own advice with our new/old house as it will not be done in a day a week or even a year. Good design takes time.

For more on this home, check out my Instagram Reel and the listing by Meredith Tomascak. 

For home finds I love, head over to my ShopMy page. Lots of pretty, new pieces!!

A Garden Tour South of Broad with The Itinerant Gardener

Charleston's South of Broad neighborhood doesn't reveal itself all at once. It unfolds slowly — down cobblestone lanes, past pastel-painted facades, through gates that hint at what lies beyond. On a warm summer afternoon, I joined Mary T of The Itinerant Gardener for our second tour together, and this particular garden made the case, quietly but convincingly, that true elegance is almost always rooted in restraint.

The home itself set the tone: a charming two-story brick with a generous double porch on the back that seemed designed for nothing more urgent than a glass of something cold and a long look at the garden below. And that garden delivered. A private courtyard unfolded beneath the porch — proper and structured, anchored by wintergreen boxwoods and Pringles dwarf podocarpus clipped into tidy, considered form. It was the kind of bones that give a garden its permanence.

But it wasn't all structure. An arch draped in bergia vine and cross vine brought a softness to the space, the bergia's gorgeous blue blooms threading through alongside the cross vine in a combination that stopped me in my tracks. And tucked throughout, white caladiums — luminous and cool — caught the light in that particular way white things do in a Southern summer garden, making everything around them feel a little more alive.

What struck me most wasn't any single plant or design decision, but the feeling the whole space created — ordered without being stiff, lush without being wild. It had that quality the best Southern gardens always have: the sense that it has always looked exactly like this, and always will.

A visit with Mary T has a way of slowing you down and making you see. This one was no exception.

For a closer look at this garden, catch the tour on Instagram — and if this one spoke to you, I have a feeling you'll find yourself equally smitten with this tour of a stately home and its formal gardens that are nothing short of swoon-worthy.

Home Tour: Countryside-Inspired Estate in Fort Mill, South Carolina

Last week I toured a countryside estate just about 30 minutes from me in Fort Mill, South Carolina. The property sits on over 6 acres and is affectionally named Briar Farm after the original owners 13 year old black lab.

Briar Farm is in a small town outside of Charlotte and has recently become home to my parents and sister as well. So when I had the opportunity to tour this one-of-a-kind English farmhouse style home, I couldn't pass it up. The builder and architect touched the home with layers upon layers -- going over the top with details from the wide mortar between the stones to the cedar shake roof. 

Inside, the home felt open and large with a generous amount of natural light. The kitchen had a paneled refrigerator, freezer and dishwasher and the range served as a focal point adjacent to a large bay of windows looking out to the pea gravel driveway and property. One thing that stood out to my inside was the use of tongue and groove panels on the walls which is perfect for high traffic areas since it doesn't dent when sports equipment, luggage and other things accidentally knock it. The side entrance mudroom is designed like something out of a Garden & Gun magazine and the homeowners love for vintage Land Rovers and a classic lifestyle is evident throughout the property. It's one of those "pinch me" properties that fully embodies a lifestyle that feels refined, luxurious and yet simple.

I hope you enjoy my home tour with New Old Custom Homes in Fort Mill, South Carolina. For more on the home, head over to Instagram here. And if you're in the market for a livable country estate close to shops and restaurants, Briar Farm is now for sale.

The exterior paint color is Sherwin Williams Oyster White.

Thanks for coming along with me to Briar Farm -- I hope you could feel the rustic warmth of the home with all of its architectural details and easy living. I was so honored to have the opportunity to tour it.

In case you missed it, the exterior paint color is Oyster White by Sherwin Williams. I get asked about paint colors all the time and while they aren't always available, I put together a blog post on non-white paint colors that add charm and character. It's all from homes that I've toured over the years -- and so good.

The Neighborhood that Captured my Heart

On a recent trip to Florida, my family and I spent time in Jacksonville. While there, we explored a neighborhood a dear friend grew up in. I had heard my friend’s beloved stories of growing up in Jacksonville. An idyllic childhood lived under the Spanish moss, running from neighbor to neighbors home and swimming in a pool that overlooked one of the many waterways that runs through and around Jacksonville.

It’s a laidback yet refined life — living by the water in an established neighborhood marked by tradition and charm. Ortega neighborhood was like a dream.

I hope you enjoy a small glimpse into the types of homes you may expect to see. What’s missing is the soft breeze from the waterway and friendly faces out for a morning stroll. Even on a cloudy day like the day these photos were taken, it’s still picturesque and what I think is one of Florida’s best kept secrets.

If you're heading to Florida or somewhere warm for Spring Break, here are some finds that I love -- only from brands I own and purchase from regularly. 

Step Inside a Houston Home with Dogwood Proper

This Houston home, redesigned by Jessica Bandstra and Bonnie Greene of Dogwood Proper, is a masterclass in thoughtful, continuous design. Spanning the entire home—from the kitchen and living spaces to bedrooms, bathrooms, and outdoor living areas—the project feels cohesive yet layered, refined without ever feeling overworked.

What sets this home apart is the seamless dialogue between old and new, perhaps most evident in the kitchen. Arched cased openings soften the architecture and set the tone for a space that leans subtly European in spirit. Inset cabinetry painted in a nuanced blue-green hue pairs beautifully with warm brass finishes, striking a balance between tailored and inviting. Expansive yet intimate, the kitchen offers generous seating at both the breakfast nook and the kitchen bar—designed for everyday comfort while maintaining a sense of elevated, thoughtful design.

The result is a home that reads as collected over time rather than decorated all at once—timeless, livable, and deeply considered. It’s a beautiful expression of Dogwood Proper’s ability to create interiors that honor history while embracing a modern sensibility. As you scroll the images, I hope you enjoy the thoughtful details, layered textures, and timeless design moments throughout the home.

You can explore more from Dogwood Proper at www.dogwoodproper.com, or shop their curated collection of furniture, lighting, and décor at 4239 Harding Pike, Suite 200, Nashville, TN.

Dogwood Proper is part of a distinguished group of interior designers across the country on the Garden & Grace Directory. For more on them and other designers in your area, visit the Garden & Grace Directory here.

Images provided by Dogwood Proper and taken by Kerry Kirk Photography. 

Roof Types and Materials That Elevate Your Home’s Curb Appeal

A roof does so much more than keep the rain out—it’s often the first thing that catches your eye, the detail that sets the tone for the entire home. Over the years, I’ve noticed certain roofs that make a front facade truly sing, whether through texture, color, or just the way they complement the architecture. Here are some thoughts on slate, cedar and metal roofs!

‍ ‍The Established Feel of Slate

Slate has a way of commanding attention without ever feeling flashy. Its natural texture and rich color give a home a sense of elegance and permanence. The weight and cost aren’t for every home, but when it works, it’s unforgettable.‍ ‍

The Charm of Cedar Shakes

Cedar feels softer, more organic. There’s something about its warm tones and how it weathers over time that makes a home feel lived-in and loved. It adds a natural, approachable beauty that suits traditional, coastal, and cottage-style homes alike.

The Quiet Statement of Metal

Metal roofs have quietly become a favorite of mine. Lightweight, durable, and long-lasting, they’re a practical choice that can also make a design statement. I especially love using metal for additions or standalone structures like garages—it pairs beautifully with the main home while standing up to the elements with minimal maintenance.

‍ The Durability of Clay

Clay tiles bring a completely different kind of character. Their warm, earthy colors and sculptural forms make a home feel distinctive. Clay is durable and long-lasting, and it’s a nice way to introduce color and an unexpected design element.

‍ ‍Faux and composite shingles have become increasingly common, offering the appearance of slate or cedar without the same weight or cost. For some homes, they may make sense—but they also raise an interesting question about how closely materials can mimic the real thing and whether it's a good alternative to asphalt roof shingles. What do you think? Hear what others are saying and share your own thoughts here.

At the end of the day, the right roof is about more than materials—it’s about character, proportion, and how it makes a house feel like home. The roofs that have caught my eye over the years aren’t just practical; they make a statement, invite a second look, and tie everything together.

My Home on the Cover of Queen City Lifestyle Magazine

It still feels surreal: seeing our front door, living room, conversation room, and dining room featured in Charlotte's premier magazine, Queen City Lifestyle, was a moment I’ll never forget. The feature—titled Grace in Every Detail—captures more than just our home. It captures warmth, softness, and the soul of  the life we are creating at home.

Ceiling is Plaster by Farrow & Ball | Wall is custom

In the article, our house is described as being layered in muted colors and textures, with botanical prints and antiques that evoke a sense of Southern charm and timeless tradition. In the conversation room, the small brown check Schumacher drapes and the custom rug from English Village Lane with a topiary-tree motif anchor the space. In the living room and dining room, the mix of antique furnishings, soft, neutral tones and curated patterns made each area feel elegant, calm, and welcoming.

What This Feature Means To Us

 To me, hearing how the rooms feel to someone walking in for the first time was incredible. Thanks to the help of many and years in the making, I feel like the rooms truly are a reflection of my design style and how my family lives. It feels like a quiet stamp of approval: our choices reflect a style that others appreciate, and now our home has a story in print. It reminds me that beauty in a home doesn’t come from chasing trends — but from choosing pieces and colors that feel like you, layering them over time, and allowing the space to evolve with life. And now, our home joins the gallery of houses that celebrate tradition, comfort, and timeless Southern grace.

Front door is Mizzle by Farrow & Ball | Brick exterior is China White by Benjamin Moore

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4 Kitchen Design Details That Make a Big Impact

If you’re planning a kitchen renovation, building a new home, or simply gathering inspiration for the future, the smallest details often make the biggest difference. Thoughtful design choices can elevate your kitchen from “nice” to truly custom — without always adding major cost. Here are five designer-approved kitchen ideas to consider as you plan your space.

1. Add a Small Scullery or Working Kitchen

Even the smallest scullery can transform how your kitchen functions. This extra space is perfect for a second dishwasher, sink, and additional storage — ideal for keeping the main kitchen clean during busy weeknights or gatherings. It’s also the perfect spot for a small refrigerator, coffee maker, microwave, and other appliances you’d rather not keep on display. Think of it as your behind-the-scenes powerhouse.

2. Carry Your Countertop Up the Wall

Continuing your countertop material as the backsplash creates a seamless, elevated look that works beautifully in both traditional and modern kitchens. This uninterrupted line of stone or quartz draws the eye upward and adds subtle drama. It’s especially impactful behind the range, where you can frame the area with a custom detail or unique stone veining.

3. Choose Ogee Edges for a Timeless Touch

Countertop edges are often overlooked, but they can change the entire feel of your kitchen. An ogee edge adds softness and timeless character—and it’s often not much more expensive than a standard profile. Pro tip: If you’re working within a tighter budget, consider using the ogee edge only on the kitchen island. It still makes a statement while keeping costs in check.

4. Place a Window Over the Sink

If your layout allows, positioning the sink under a window brings instant charm. A window that cranks open feels classic and practical, inviting fresh air in while you prep meals or wash dishes. And if it faces your backyard or garden — even better. It turns an everyday task into an enjoyable moment.

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Non-white Paint Colors That Add Character

If you’re looking for paint colors that bring personality to a space without feeling bold or overwhelming, these three favorites are worth considering.

‍ ‍Woodlawn Blue by Benjamin Moore
In a two-story foyer with semi-good natural light, this soft blue feels fresh, inviting, and perfectly southern. It’s light enough to keep the space open, yet adds just the right amount of color. I especially love how it looks paired with creamy white molding—it highlights the architecture and gives the entryway a timeless charm. See the full home tour with Kate Morrison from Eastover Collection here. 

Light Blue by Farrow & Ball
This cozy den proves that soft color can still feel rich and layered. Farrow & Ball’s Light Blue creates a soothing backdrop that plays beautifully with warmer tones—think browns, reds, and deep blues. It adds depth and character to smaller rooms, making them feel intimate rather than dark. See my full home tour with Mary Margaret Underwood here.

Tissue Pink by Benjamin Moore
In another entryway, Tissue Pink offers the faintest blush of color. I didn’t even notice it was pink until I looked back at photos—it’s that subtle. This hue adds a gentle, feminine touch without feeling too sweet, and pairs effortlessly with greens, blues, and creamy neutrals. See my home tour with Kate Figler at her Nashville, TN home here.